Quit complaining My friends

Spread the word via Twitter or Facebook when word of encouragement is suitable for word of encouragement for the people you care about. Friend, you complain it appropriate? Though you have been blessed with a pair of strong arms to change the world. It worth your gripe? Though you have been awarded the intelligence that allows you to fix everything.

Do you intend to squander it all? then remove the burden and responsibility? Do not force that is in you, because you stumbled lamented. Let your heart tegarkan. Enforce the shoulder. Do not let the spirit is lost just because you do not know the answer to your problem.

Do not let fatigue thrust your advantage. Take a deep breath. Settle all the universe is in your mind. Then find another glimmer of light behind the clouds. And start taking a new step.

Indeed, there are more people than you are entitled to complain. Unfortunately, their voices hoarse inaudible, because they did not have time to complain. Heavy burden of life which they live rather than their regret. If so masihkan you prefer to complain rather than undergo the challenges of life?

Perhaps the following picture image can be made ​​more vibrant companions through life without feeling shortages.

If you feel your work is very heavy, what about him

If you feel you pay very little, what about the children who are poor?

If you feel studying is a burden, imitate the spirit he ..

If you have time to feel desperate, remember this guy!

















wonder what we are complaining about the food while it is being thought of eating a Happy Meal?











If you feel alive You suffer, do you also feel pain like this?











If you feel you life is not fair, what about him?

















When we were kids spoiled and loved, what they are spoiled?

















What we still do not feel guilty about not always listen even against our mother?


















Promise yourself, then do. Talk less do More! thank you've seen this post .. spread through the share box below if this is felt important to be shared to the people you care about.

(source : http://motivatorsuper.com/berhentilah-mengeluh/5667)

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Dare To Dream

It was told that once in a poor remote village, there was a school having very few students because most of the school-age children had to help their parents to make a living. One day, the only school teacher in the school taught composition to his pupils. Having explained all the rules and guidance, he assigned his students to write an essay. "At home, write an essay about your dreams, about what you want to be in the future.

Tomorrow, you are supposed to read your work in front of the class.."

On the next day, each student, stood in front of the class reading his or her own writing. Most of them wanted to become teachers, farmers, or government officials, etc. The teacher, nodded his head up and down, as the sign of agreement. Then, here came his youngest student to share his dreams to the class.

He was terribly-looked; thin as a needle wearing worn out school uniform. Despite his poor-look, he boldly declared his dreams, "Someday when I grow up, I am going to have a big house up on the hill with beautiful scenery around, surrounded by small cottages for rest places. Among the house, there would be pine trees and the other shady trees. There would be a flower garden with various flowers and colors. There was also an orchard with all the most delicious fruits ever existing which could be plucked by the host and the people around. I will be a successful and happy man together with my big family and guest who go there."

And of course, the whole class burst into laughter as they were listening to the ugly-looked-little-thin boy's dream. "Hey day dreamer, get up from your nap..," said his friends rudely and humiliatingly. They could not stop making fun on him, mocked him with rude words. The teacher then became a little upset. He accused the boy the cause of the boisterous noise. He said, "What you wrote was a fantasy, not dream. You should write like any other students did. Now, you must rewrite your paragraph. Write like your friends!"

"Teacher, this is my real dream. It's not a fantasy, it can be realized," insisted the youngest student.

"Hey son… you are living in a poor village, your family is also a poor one. How can you make all your dreams come true? What a dreamer you are! Now you must write another logical dream," said the teacher impatiently.

"I don't want any other dreams. This is my only dream" said the boy with persistence.

"Please bring a new essay tomorrow. If you don't want to revise your writing, I will give the lowest mark," warned the teacher trying to threat him.

The next morning, the youngest student did not bring any new composition. Although he was threatened and mocked that way before the class, he still insisted on his dreams. Due to his stubbornness to his teacher's assignment, he got the worst mark in class.

Thirty years had passed; the teacher was still a teacher at the school. One day he took his students to have a study tour to a well-known orchard up on a hill in the village nearby. As he and his students stepped their feet on the spacious and beautiful orchard, they were amazed. Besides the orchard, there was a big and beautiful flower garden too surrounded by shady and cool trees around. What astonished them more was the big house standing tall, sturdy and beautifully-designed in the middle of the garden like a palace.

"He who built this palace must be a great man.. How can I just figure this out that there is such a heavenly place around…," said the teacher in amazement. Suddenly he heard a voice, "No, it is not a great man who built this place. It is just a naughty student who dared to have a big dream. Surely, his teacher who educated him is supposed to be greater than him. Let's come inside and have the best tea and fruit from this garden," said the voice warmly.

The teacher was shocked having heard the answer. He was astonished. His mind wondered back to a scene 30 years ago. And slowly he began to recognize who the man standing in front of him now was. Yes, he was that stubborn student, the one who did not want to change his dream and got the worst mark of all in the class. And now he had become a very successful businessman. His eyes were wet. He felt great and relieved and at the same time shameful as he mocked the boy's dream 30 years ago.

Dear readers,

If we want to realize and observer carefully, there are lots of spectacular accomplishments from the past centuries up to the millennium era today. All were born and started by an embryo.

Because of a dream, a plane was created.

Because of a dream, we can enjoy the greatness of a computer.

Because of a dream too, our life quality is increasing.

Of course, to consummate all the dreams into reality, we need the other powers. The powers should be cultivated in our inner selves, namely : The Power of bravery, trial, fight, dare to fail and dare to succeed.

Most of the time, the obstacles of someone's success is not due to his/her weakness that he/she has. But more, because they do not have a strong dream that they believe and then fight for full heartedly.

In relation to my own experience, when I got a dream to be a movie star in Hong Kong because I knew that I had the skill of martial arts, good-looking face and athletic body, but on the other hand, I had a poor family background, low education, coolie, inexperience, isn't that all the joke ever in this world?

Look of mockeries and doubts arose every time people heard of my dream. Some friends did not believe in my dream and considered it ass too high to reach. Some worried that my dream would not be consummated. Some paid pity to see me steel-like determination and fight, I made my dream to be a Hong Kong movie star.

Mockeries and doubts from other people to any big dreams were also faced by great people in the world. But these people never stopped by the mockeries and doubts. Because for those who have rich mentality, mockeries and doubts are unpaid vitamins that needed to trigger their struggle in life.

Therefore, if there are several people who mock at and doubt our dream, don't let that worry you. Just one best answer ever, strengthen your determination and spirit, and prove them that we have the right and able to get whatever best for our life.

(source : http://www.andriewongso.com/artikel/aw_artikel/237/Dare_To_Dream/)

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STORY Woodcutter

Once, a timber merchant accepting applications for a worker to cut down trees in the forest. Because of the promised salary and working conditions will be accepted very well, so that the candidate woodcutter was determined to do his best.

We began to work, the employer gives an ax and showed the work area must be completed by the target date specified to the woodcutter.The first day of work, he managed to knock down 8 trees. In the afternoon, to hear the work of the bush, the employer was impressed and gave praise sincerely, "The results of your work was incredible! I am very impressed with your ability to cut down the trees. No one ever before like this. Continue to work like that ".Highly motivated by praise her employer, the next day the bush to work even harder, but he only succeeded in knocking down seven trees. 

The third day, he worked even harder, but the results remained unsatisfactory even disappointing. The more each passing day, the little tree that had broken down. "I think I've lost the ability and strength, how can I account for my work to the employer?" Woodcutter thought shame and despair. With heads bowed her face to the employer, apologized for the lack of adequate work and complain do not understand what had happened.The boss listened and asked him, 

"When was the last time you sharpened your ax?""Sharpen the ax? I do not have time for that, I am very busy every day cutting trees from morning to evening with a vengeance ". Said the lumberjack."Well, this is the problem. Remember, your first day of work? With a new ax and sharpened, then you can cut down a tree with outstanding results. In the following days, with the same energy, using the same axes but not polished, you know, the results are diminishing. So, how busy, you should take time to sharpen your ax, so that every day working with the same effort and maximum results.

Now start sharpening your ax and get back to work! "Ordered the employer. With a nod-nod of the head and say thank you, the bush away from the presence of her employer to start sharpening the ax.Rest does not mean stop,But to travel furtherJust as the woodcutter, we are every day, from morning till night, as if stuck in a routine pattern.

Busy, busy, busy, so often forget the other side is equally important, namely a short break to hone and fill out new things to add to the knowledge, insight and spiritual. If we are able to regulate the rhythm of activity like this, our lives will surely be a dynamic, resourceful and always new!

(source : http://www.andriewongso.com/artikel/aw_artikel/169/Kisah_Si_Penebang_Pohon/)

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10 QUALITY GOOD PERSONALITY

Sincerity

Sincerity is ranked first as the most favored by nature

everyone. Sincerity makes others feel safe and valued as

sure will not be fooled or deceived. People who are sincere are always saying

truth, not like making it up, pretend, make excuses or

distort the facts. The principle is "Yes and No on Yes on No".

Of course it would be ideal if a soft sincerity pigeon was offset

the ingenuity of a snake. That way, sincerity is not to be

innocence that can hurt yourself.

Humility

In contrast to low self-esteem which is a weakness, humility would caution

reveals the power. Only the strong soul that can be

humble. He was like growing rice contains more down. Person

The humble can recognize and appreciate the excellence of others. He could

make people feel okay on it and make the person underneath

do not feel inferior.

Loyalty

Loyalty is a rare commodity and a very high price. People who

faithful always to be trusted and relied upon. He always kept his promises, had

strong commitment, willing to sacrifice and do not like treason.

Positive Thinking

People who are positive (positive thinking) always try to see

everything from a positive lens, even in a bad situation

even. He would rather talk about the good rather than bad people

others, would rather talk about hope rather than despair, preferring

look for solutions rather than frustrating, praising rather than criticizing, and

so on.

Cheerfulness

Because not everyone is blessed with cheerful temperament, it is not fun

should be interpreted facial expressions and body but the heart attitude. People who are cheerful

is the one who can enjoy life, do not like to complain and always

trying to achieve happiness. He could laugh at the situation, other people,

well as himself. He's got the potential to entertain and encourage

the spirit of others.

Be responsible

The responsible person will carry out its obligations with

seriously. If you make a mistake, he dared to admit it.

When a failure, he would not seek a scapegoat for

blame. Even if he was disappointed and hurt, he will not

blame anyone. He realizes that he himself

responsible for any experienced and felt.

Confidence

Confidence allows one to receive him as

presence, respect themselves and respect others. People who believe

themselves easily adapt to new environments and situations. He

know what to do and do well.

Greatness of the Soul

Greatness of soul can be seen from a person's ability to forgive others.

People with big hearts did not let himself be ruled by hatred

and hostility. When facing difficult times he remained strong, not

let himself be swept away in sorrow and despair.

Easy Going

People who are easy going take life lightly. He does not like

exaggerate a minor problem. Even tried to play down the problem-

a big problem. He does not like to bring up the past and did not want to worry

the future. He did not want a headache and stress with the problems

which are beyond its control.

Empathy

Empathy is a trait that is admirable. Empathize with people who not only

a good listener but also can put themselves in someone else's.

When a conflict he is always looking for the best way out for both

parties, do not like to force their opinions and his own. He

always trying to understand and appreciate other people.

(source : http://bestmotivator.blogspot.com/)

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DICK HOYT - PROOF THAT TRUE LOVE EXISTS

What is the meaning of love?

Does true love really exist?

Sometimes such questions arise in our mind and we certainly have our own answer or opinion. But I want you to tell you a story, a touching story that contains the essence of true love: love and sacrifice, a story about love of a father, Dick Hoyt, to his son, Rick Hoyt.

At the time of his birth, Rick suffered a devastating brain cells disease that made Rick couldn't talk and walk. But what was experienced by Rick did not make his father, Dick Hoyt, felt his son was a disgrace. He taught Rick to speak, even took her to exercise and jogging together.

One day, Rick said to his father, "Daddy, when we are running ... I feel like I'm not disabled anymore .. I feel like a normal person !" . That words changed Dick's life. He began to obsess to give that feeling to his child. After several years of practice, Dick registered to attend an athletic contest. Where in that contest, the participants had to do what is called the "Iron-Man" ( 4 km of swimming, 180 km of biking, and 42 km of running ). The remarkable thing was he would do the Iron-Man by carrying Rick with him, in order to fulfill Rick's desire.

Dick made it! and after the event, Rick said "He is the father of this century, I wish one day my father sit in this chair and I'll be the one who push it"

Does true love really exist?

YES IT DOES!!!!

(source : http://www.lovevirtue.com/Love-Stories/dick-hoyt-proof-that-true-love-exists.html)

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8 CHARACTERISTICS OF MEN FUTURE SUCCESS

What you see when choosing a mate? Men who come from wealthy and prominent family? If the purpose of your relationship just now, maybe it's enough. However, if you are looking for a serious relationship up to the wedding, there are other criteria that should you see, the potential of his success.

1. Have a purpose in life

When you ask what the purpose of his life, he will explain in detail to you the short and medium term plans, what he wants to do next year, five years, and so on.

In fact, he prepared a contingency plan to anticipate failure. Not only answered, 'We'll see, just live life like flowing water.'

2. Independent

It does not rely on others and rely on their own abilities in any way. For example, since the beginning of work, he paid for their own lives without the help of her parents. Men such as these suggest that he was responsible for his life and the lives of people he loved. He's also never complained about his job. Because he realized that to succeed, will require effort and hard work.

3. Hobbies help

You would never hear the phrase more and more giving, more and more accepted. Believe it or not, this expression is true. So, if your partner has a mild man a helping hand to others, you should be proud to support it. Because, this will be the provision or savings to reach success in the future. Who knew that he had helped someone today plays an important role in his career later on.

4. Friendly and knowledgeable

A friendly attitude coupled with the breadth of knowledge will usually be easy to take care of many, including lobbying at the key people associated with his career. Knowledge about various things including the latest news will make others feel comfortable discussing with him. More and more people attracted to her, the wider its networking as well. If you have this, you do not have to worry about the qualities he possessed, success will soon be over.

5. 'Family man'

Men who are responsible and loving family is usually a man who was also watching the development of his career. He will always be motivated to improve career to better meet the needs of his family. In addition, the men of this type tend to be loyal to her partner so that he could balance your time and thoughts to you and your work.

6. Has an investment

Currently the salary he is hardly a big deal? No need to worry as long as he could manage his income and did not always run out of money in the middle of the month. Especially when it includes people who are keen to see business opportunities. No need is too great, leaving from a small business can deliver a successful entrepreneur. Supports fully when he has the desire to repay a home or invest in other forms, such as stocks or mutual funds. Because it shows he's really thinking about the future.

7. Realistic and straight

Although he's eager to reach his dream, still observe how their business dreams, do not let him justify the various ways that it could destroy his future. Remember to stay realistic about its capabilities. If he's an expert in the field of information technology, he did not have to force yourself to become a public relations as interested in seeing his success in that field. Each person has the advantage that it is different.

8. Optimistic and positive

He really knows what the strengths and weaknesses so that he was always confident when interacting with others or when given new responsibilities. He almost never says 'can not' or 'lazy to do it deh'. He always think positive and optimistic that any challenge that comes there must be a solution. In addition, he also used to focus on doing things quickly, so do not give up when a failure.

Sumber : http://surgaberita.blogspot.com/2012/04/8-ciri-pria-bermasa-depan-yang-cerah.html#ixzz1t8KbKcKy

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Inspiring Stories: HOW DO YOU HANDLE DIFFICULTIES

AUTHOR // John Michael

A daughter complained to her father about her life and how the situation was very hard for him. He does not know how he handled and he wanted to surrender. He tired to continue fighting and struggling. It seems like when one problem solved another problem arises.

His father, a chef, took her to the kitchen, then fill three pots with water and place it on fire. Soon, the water in the third pot began to boil.

In one pot she placed carrots, in another pot he placed eggs, and at last he put the pot beans. He let it boil, without saying anything.

Daughter impatiently wondered what her father did. He has a problem, and his father made strange concoction. Half an hour later, the father went to the stove and turn off the flame. He took the carrot and the egg and put it on a plate. Then take the last pot of coffee and put it in the glass.

The father asked, "Honey what you see,"

Quickly, he answers, "Carrots, eggs, and coffee."

The father brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and the carrots are soft. The father then told him to take an already boiled egg and break it. After opening the egg shell, she observed the solid contents. Finally, the father told him to drink a little coffee. His face crinkled feel the power of the coffee flavor.

He asked, "What is the purpose of this all the fathers?"

The father explained, "Each of these objects through the same thing, a 100-degree hot water. But every body reacts differently."

"Carrots are initially entered by the strong and harsh circumstances. But after going through boiling water, it becomes soft and weak."

"Eggs are very fragile. Thin outer shell protects the liquid inside. But after being in boiling water, it becomes hard."

"But the coffee beans were unique. Once they are in boiling water, it becomes increasingly powerful and rich in taste and smell." "Which one are you?" The father asked his daughter.

When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?

Am I the carrot, egg or coffee bean?

Are you a carrot that looks strong, but with a bit of pain, adversity, heat you wilt and soft with no strength?

Are you the egg that starts with a soft heart and spirit that continues to flow like a liquid? But after the death of the closest, a breakup, a divorce, a layoff you became hardened and stiff. Cangkangmu look the same, but your heart and your soul turned into a very hard and stiff.

Or you like a coffee bean? Coffee beans do not get a strong flavor and aroma until it is heated in boiling water 100 degrees. When the situation gets worse, you are actually getting better. As the days getting darker, heavier exams, your soul would go up to the next level.

How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

(sumber :  http://www.lovevirtue.com)

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